Sōké Dan

STILL ASKING EVERYONE WHAT YOU SHOULD DO?

You're So Tired of
Never Knowing
Where You Stand With Him.

One day, everything feels good.

Then something changes.

He's distant.
He stops calling like he used to.
Something just feels different.

And you're back asking:

Why is he acting like this?
What are we?
Did I do something wrong?

You're afraid to stay and get hurt again.

Afraid to leave and wonder if you gave up too soon.

What if you stay and regret it?

What if you leave and regret it?

So you wait.

Until something happens again.

And you're right back asking:

“What do I do?”

100% Money Back Guarantee

Attend the Live Decision Session and complete your Dating Receipt Book™.
If you still don't know what you're going to do about your situation by the end of the session, we'll refund your $150.

LIVE ONLINE
OCTOBER 18, 2026 · 6:00 PM ET
90–120 MINUTES · NO REPLAY

I WANT TO KNOW WHAT TO DO — $150
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Aren’t You Tired of Going Back and Forth?
Tired of thinking you’ve finally figured it out, only to start questioning yourself again?
Tired of wondering whether you’re making the right choice or one you’ll regret later?
Imagine not having to figure this out anymore.
Imagine knowing what you’re going to do

and why you’re going to do it.
And when he asks you why, you can tell him.
You don’t have to convince him.
You don’t need him to agree.
You know why.
Because this time, no one made the decision
for you.
You made it yourself.
So Why Would This Time Be Any Different?
You’ve thought you had the answer before.
A friend said something that made sense.
You read something online that explained him to a tee.
Maybe you even told yourself:
“Okay. I know what I’m going to do.”
For a little while, you felt sure.
Then the questions came back.
So I understand why you might be wondering:
“Why would this be any different?”
Because this time, we’re not going to spend the session trying to figure him out.
We’re going to figure out what you’re going to do.
We aren’t going to guess about what he meant. We’re going to look at what he actually did.
What keeps happening.
And what all of that means for what you do next.
I’ll guide you through it step by step.
But I won’t make the decision for you.
Because I’m not the one who has to live with it.
You are.
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You Don’t Have to Figure This Out Alone.
Up until now, you’ve been trying to piece this together on your own.
Reading. Thinking. Asking. Second-guessing.
Not this time.
You’ll bring the one situation that’s been keeping you stuck into a live room with other women who came for the same reason:
They’re trying to answer the same question you are:
“What do I do?”
I’ll guide you through your situation step by step.
You’ll do the work on your decision while they work through theirs.
No one in the room gets to decide for you.
But you won’t have to figure it out
alone.

LIVE ONLINE
OCTOBER 18, 2026 6:00 PM ET
90–120 MINUTES · NO REPLAY

I WANT TO KNOW WHAT TO DO — $150

100% Money Back Guarantee

Attend the Live Decision Session and complete your Dating Receipt Book™.
If you still don't know what you're going to do about your situation by the end of the session,
we'll refund your $150.

What You'll Gain From This Workshop

01

Bring Your Situation

Bring the one relationship struggle you’ve been trying to figure out.

02

Work Through It

Separate what you know from what you
hope, fear, assume, or haven't verified.

03

Make Your Own Decision

Use what you worked through to decide what you’re going to do.

But What If My Situation Is Different?
It probably is.
Your relationship isn’t exactly like anyone else’s.
Maybe he’s a good man in a lot of ways.
Maybe there’s history between you.
Maybe there are real reasons to stay.
And real reasons you’re questioning whether you should.
Maybe you’re trying to decide whether to stay or leave.
Maybe you’re wondering how much longer you should wait.
Maybe something happened and you can’t decide whether it’s enough to walk away.
Or maybe your situation doesn’t fit neatly into any of those.
That’s okay.
Because you won’t spend the Live Decision Session working through someone else’s relationship.
You’ll bring your situation.
Your history.
Your circumstances.
Your concerns.
And the question that’s been keeping you up
at night.
Your situation doesn’t have to look like
anyone else’s.
Because I’m not going to give you a one-size-fits-all answer.
I’m going to help you look at what’s actually happening in your situation, so you can decide
what you’re going to do.
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Sōké Dan
Creator of Evidence-Based Dating
Why I Built
Evidence-Based Dating
I didn’t build Evidence-Based Dating because I wanted to become a dating coach.
I built it for my daughters.
As their father, I knew I wouldn’t always be there when they had a difficult decision to make.
And even if I was, I didn’t want them depending on my opinion to make their decisions.
I wanted them to be able to look at what was actually happening and think for themselves.
So instead of trying to give them all the answers,
I taught them how to find their own.
That’s what eventually became Evidence-Based Dating.
And that’s the same role I’ll have with you in the Live Decision Session.
I’m not there to make your decision for you.
I’m there to guide you through your situation step by step, so you can find your own answer.
Will You Make the Right Decision?

One night, you may be alone asking yourself:

“Did I make the right decision?”

If your decision was based on anger, fear, or pain, what happens when you don’t feel that way anymore?

You may start to doubt your decision.

That’s when regret can creep in.

Now take the same situation, but this time your decision was based on
what happened, what he said, and what he did.

Your feelings may change, but the reason for your decision hasn’t.

You’ll know you made the right decision based on what you knew at the time.

You May Be Wondering...

What happens during the Live Decision Session?

You’ll bring the one situation that’s been keeping you stuck.

I’ll guide you through your Dating Receipt Book™ step by step while you work through your situation privately.

By the end, you’ll use what you’ve written to make your decision.

You do the deciding. I’ll guide you through the process.

No.

I won’t tell you to stay, leave, give him another chance, or walk away.

I’ll guide you through your situation so you can reach your own answer.

That’s why the Live Decision Session comes with the Decision Guarantee.

Attend the session and complete your Dating Receipt Book™.

If you still don’t know what you’re going to do about your situation by the end, we’ll refund your $47 investment.

No questions asked.

No.

Your Dating Receipt Book™ is private. I won’t see what you write,
and neither will the other women in the workshop.

I’ll guide you through each question while you work through your situation privately.

What you write is for you.

It’s Time to Make Your Own Decision.

You’ve heard the opinions.

You’ve thought about it from every angle.

And you’re still here.

You’ve spent enough time wondering what to do and worrying you’ll make a mistake.

And worrying you’ll
regret the choice you made.

No one else can make this choice for you.

And they shouldn’t.

Bring your situation to the Live Decision Session.

I’ll guide you through it so you can reach your own answer.

So when it’s over, you can say:

“I made my decision.
And I know why.”

LIVE ONLINE
OCTOBER 18, 2026 6:00 PM ET
90–120 MINUTES · NO REPLAY

I WANT TO KNOW WHAT TO DO — $150

100% Money Back Guarantee

Attend the Live Decision Session and complete your Dating Receipt Book™.
If you still don't know what you're going to do about your situation by the end of the session,
we'll refund your $150.

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