You’ll stop asking,
“Is this a red flag?”
Now you’ll know for sure.
Not months later. Not after the damage. But right in the moment.
Stop Letting the Wrong Men Waste Your Life.
You’re not crazy. You’re not broken.
You’ve just been making decisions without the one thing that changes everything—a system.
The Red Flag Detection System trains you to spot the signs early, trust what you see, and walk away before it costs you more than time.
This isn’t coaching.
This isn’t therapy.
It’s the system I gave my daughters when I was done watching them suffer—and they were done pretending to be fine.
Learn to trust what you see—and leave before it hurts.
This workshop gave me the tools I wish I had 10 years ago.
- Peace of Mind That You’re Not Wasting Time
- See Through Charm Before It Becomes a Trap
- The Confidence to Trust Yourself Again
Emotional decision-making that leads to regret.
Why do I keep falling for the same type of person?
You’re smart.
You pay attention.
And still, somehow, you find yourself second-guessing everything—especially in relationships.
Replaying talks, scared you missed it.
You say yes when you want to say no—just to avoid drama.
You stop trusting yourself because your feelings keep getting it wrong.
Every decision becomes a spiral:
What do I say?
What do I do?
Do I stay or leave?
You want to trust yourself.
But past mistakes keep whispering,
“Don’t screw this up again.”
And the hardest part?
No one sees how much energy you spend pretending to have it all together.
It’s Not Just a Feeling—It’s a Pattern. And It Ends Here.
You’ve been told to “trust your gut.” But when emotions run high, that instinct can blur the line between connection and chaos.
This workshop gives you something stronger: a clear, step-by-step framework to spot red flags early—before they cost you your peace, your time, or your trust in yourself.
This isn’t theory. It’s the same method I taught my daughters, and it’s helped hundreds of women walk away from toxic patterns with clarity and confidence. It’s not about being perfect—it’s about learning to think clearly, even when feelings are loud and charm is louder.
By the end of this live workshop, you’ll know exactly what to look for, how to trust what you see, and when to walk away. No more spiraling. No more second-guessing. Just grounded decisions you can stand behind—with peace of mind to match.
Learn to Trust Your Decisions — or Keep Repeating the Same Painful Mistakes.
Clear Choices in Tough Moments
You’ll walk away with a reliable way to read the signs—no spirals, no more “What if I’m wrong?” Just clear, grounded decisions.
Clarity You Can Trust
Learn how to separate facts from feelings—so you can spot red flags without second-guessing or letting emotions hijack your judgment.
Boundaries Without Walls
You’ll protect your time, peace, and standards—without shutting down or turning cold. You stay open, but you stay smart.
Here's how it works...
Step 01
Say YES to YOU.
Signup with purpose
and protect your peace.
Make the choice to protect your time, energy, and peace by learning the skills no one ever taught you—but you’ve always needed.
Step 02
Do the Work That Protects You
Apply What You Learned
This isn’t busywork. It’s the kind of work that saves your energy, your peace, and
your future.
You’ll learn how to spot patterns, test red flags, and trust your instincts—the right way.
Step 03
Use The System.
Trust Your Judgment—With No Regrets.
You’ll stop second-guessing and start making decisions that protect your peace. No more reacting. No more regrets. Just clear, grounded choices you can stand on.
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What you'll get...
The Red Flag Detecting System
A step-by-step method to spot red flags while they’re happening—so you don’t spiral, doubt yourself, or stay too long.
Real-Time Pattern Detection
Learn how to catch patterns and emotional games as they happen—not after you’ve already made excuses.
PDF Scripts for Hard Conversations
Word-for-word scripts to speak up calmly, ask the right questions, and say what needs to be said—without spiraling after.
Red Flag Checklist & Behavior Tracker
A printable checklist to track what you’re seeing—so decisions feel clear, not chaotic.
7-Day Replay Access
Rewatch anytime for a full week—plus lifetime access to all the tools, templates, and training.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if I can’t attend live?
No problem. You’ll get full 7-day replay access, so you can watch on your schedule.
You’ll still get all the tools, frameworks, and downloads—nothing gets left out.
I’m not dating anyone right now. Is this still useful?
Yes. This workshop is about recognizing patterns—not people.
It’ll help you sharpen your instincts now, so when someone does show up, you’ll already know what to look for.
What if I’ve already taken other workshops?
That’s exactly why this one will feel different.
This isn’t about general advice or mindset shifts. It’s a method—built to help you spot patterns in real time, not in hindsight. Even if you’ve done other work, this system gives you a way to act while it’s happening, not after the damage is done.
What if I’m not good at communication?
You don’t have to be. The system does the heavy lifting.
You’ll also get word-for-word scripts so you can express what you need—without spiraling, freezing, or over-explaining.
Will this help me spot manipulation?
Yes—early. That’s the point.
You’ll learn how to catch patterns of manipulation, inconsistency, and emotional pressure while they’re still small—before they turn into chaos.
Is this the same system you taught your daughters?
Yes. This is the exact method I built to protect my daughters from wasting their time, doubting themselves, or ignoring what they saw. If it protects them, it can protect you too.
Is this therapy?
No. This isn’t therapy—they are tools.
You won’t be sitting around analyzing your past. You’ll be learning a method to make better, faster, more confident decisions in real time.
Ready To Get Started
You’ll stop asking,
In one live 120-minute workshop
You’ll learn a clear decision-making system that teaches you how to:
- Spot red flags before they spiral
- Walk away early—without regret
- Trust what you see—even when you care
Do it all without therapy, overthinking, or talking in circles
- Even if you’ve stayed too long before.
- Even if you’re still unsure today.
- Even if you’ve missed the signs before.
Real-Time Red Flag Radar
Spot the signs while they’re happening—not weeks later when it’s already messy.
A System That Thinks Straight
Make clear, grounded decisions without needing therapy, permission, or perfect words.
Clarity Over Closure
Walk away early—without begging for answers or holding out for who they could be.
Decide Without the Drama
Use a system that doesn’t rely on mood swings, trauma, or emotional exhaustion.
If you don’t make the decision now,
you’ll pay for it later.
Here’s what that cost usually looks like:
Wasted months
or years on someone you had a bad feeling about on day one
Sleepless nights
obsessing over mixed signals, silence, and should-I-stay spirals
Another hit
to your confidence when it all falls apart—and you saw the signs, again
Join the Red Flag Detection System Workshop
$97 is the lowest price this workshop will ever be.
This is the same system I built to protect my daughters. Now it can protect you too.